BOOKS BY TAMI
The following books were written by me, Tami Butler, at varying stages of my life. I've included the links here for you to order titles as you wish, and you will be redirected to Amazon to checkout. This is only for books. If you would like to place a quantity order for your group or organization, please contact us directly.
permission to be HAPPY New Release!
The capacity to change your brain is supported by faith and clinically backed by science. Your brain controls every aspect of your body.
In this book, we'll dive into nine principles that will help you begin to restructure your life in ways that produce happiness. Happy is an intentional state of being. It is peace in an unfortunate circumstance, rather than allowing that circumstance to control you. In essence, you alone are responsible for your own happiness. You control your own brain. Thoughts, diet, exercise, people, choices, lifestyle – all play a part. Let's start by focusing your thoughts, so you can begin to rewire your brain.
Take your power back, lean on God, see yourself worthy, give yourself permission, do the work, and create a happier you! A happy you is foundational to a healthy you and a healthy relationship.
stand by your man
Stand by Your Man will help you to express love and loyalty to your man. To be exceptional and stand out to him, in a world that so often devalues relentless commitment to one person - your spouse. Your significant other. The love of your life. It's about being a woman of courage, showing honor, giving the highest gift you can give (the gift of true love). Then expecting your reward to come from God, not your man. To do what may be hard or seem impossible. To display a level of character often rare for a man to find or experience with a woman.
When you willingly give him the "gifts" revealed in this book, it's entirely possible you may see him being a new man! But this isn't about changing the one you love, it's about learning to be a woman after God's heart, so he can experience God through you. God gave you a position of great influence in his life for a reason. Consider this God's challenge to be a woman he can't live without and start giving your man the gift of your heart and loyalty. A gift he could say no to, but one he certainly will never forget. Be unforgettable and Stand by Your Man. Then watch God bless you!
stand by your man - prayer journal
In this companion to Stand by Your Man, you'll have a powerful weapon at your fingertips - a war strategy. Otherwise known as a prayer journal. With a specific and documented plan of action, you can better focus your prayers for your marriage and see God move. There are lined pages to date and note your petitions and your victories, as well scripture and tips to help you pray effectively, according to God's Word.
Praying for your man is another way you can express your love and loyalty to him. By bringing needs before God, interceding on his behalf, and doing what is considered a silent effort to see transformation take place in your relationship. Even though prayer can be very vocal, it is your secret weapon against an enemy who would seek to destroy your lives together and your marriage.
The Stand by Your Man Prayer Journal is another challenge I urge you to take to be that woman he can't live without. The one who will courageously pray for him so that he may experience God in a fresh way. When you do this, you arm yourself to fight God's way anytime of the day or night. It’s free, it costs you nothing but time, you can do it anywhere, and the results can be... well, amazing!
start his engine
A man gets “turned on” when a woman respects, admires, values and embraces his “manhood”. He will go to the end of the earth for you when he knows you are down for him. In this book, Start His Engine, you will be exposed to key actions you can take as a woman to unleash his manhood and create a stronger relationship with him. Most men surveyed who have read the material state that the accuracy is about 99.9% - that's a pretty strong number!
Learn what men won't often tell you about themselves and what they like and desire from a woman. It’s designed to be a quick read (with introspection journal guides for deeper thought) to get you started down the right path to pleasing your man long-term and enjoying a harmonious relationship with him.
Married or single, you are sure to find these practical, down-to-earth tips beneficial in your interactions with men on a personal or professional level.
how to romance a woman
Inside the heart of nearly every woman is the desire to be romanced by her man… to be emotionally swept off her feet, to physically feel her heart race and body tingle, to intellectually feel understood, to spiritually connect with you, to socially be proud of you as the man she’s with. Romance involves all five of these core human needs. For some men, romancing comes naturally. Others it does not.
How to Romance a Woman is a simple, yet effective guide that can turn both experienced and novice romancers into that Zorro women fall head over heels for! Written by a woman for men, you will learn INSIDE SECRETS (she may not be open to telling you) that could spare you failure and embarrassment in the romance department. Who said men couldn’t have a manual? A “cheat sheet”? This book is just that. Discover once and for all what woman like and how you can increase your level of attraction. Whether you are dating or married, using the techniques in How to Romance a Woman is sure to skyrocket your points in her love bank!
If you are experiencing the pain and heartache associated with a marriage that is failing or facing significant crisis—this journal is for you. In times of stress, it can be difficult to see your way through the storm. Documenting what is happening in your life on a day-to-day basis is a safe and therapeutic way to express yourself, identify true feelings, record factual events, set goals, note prayer requests and answers to prayer, work through problems and areas of pain, see what brings you joy, and more.
Professional therapists agree, keeping a journal is a healthy thing to do for you! The Suddenly Separated Journal includes one full page per day for the first six months of your journey, with additional pages to assist you in the healing process such as: Identify strengths and weaknesses in your marriage, yourself, and your spouse; view the differences between a healthy and an unhealthy relationship; understand what abuse is and pinpoint if it may be happening in your marriage; establish a plan of action for your future; pray for restoration with the special extensive prayer included.
Whether you are standing in faith to restore your marriage or need to begin a new life without your spouse, this journal will be a valuable tool in the process of healing your broken heart!
green light dating
Green Light Dating is a little book that gives you one convenient place to see how the dates in your life match up to your ideal love. Think of it as a phone book, a journal, and a rating system in one! 10 Potential “Perfect Person” Profiles allow you to record such information as: Contact & Personal Information, Interests & Attributes, Conversation Observations & Comments, Where/How You Met, First Date Details, Attraction Factors & Chemistry, Potential Red Flags, “Rate Your Date” LIGHT Code, plus you’ll have a place to note what’s important to you as you search for your “perfect person” so you will know a good thing when you see it!
Gain tips for online dating, learn what men and women are looking for when choosing a mate, and more. Just like any other goal in your life, finding the man or woman of your dreams is a strategic plan that will produce results in time if you stay focused and driven to succeed. Put an end to being single — know what you want, reach out in faith, trust God to do His part, and don’t stop until you win! Decide today to find your ideal match and get committed!
my adventure into love: chronicle 1
My Adventure Into Love is the story of two hopeless romantics and their quest for love. With each encounter, they learn about themselves, each other and that the miles between them are temporary. A treasure of short stories, these Chronicles will clench your heart, keep you on edge, and stir up the zeal in you to go out there and get what you want from life... especially in love.
An amazingly high percentage of women (as much as 73%) are in unfulfilling or dysfunctional long-term relationships and marriages. That is a strong statistic, and one that we must work to change. Freeing Yourself – Discovering Your Path to Relational Wholeness was written for women who want to first make themselves whole in order to increase their chances of having a happy and satisfying long-term relationship with a man. It is also written for the woman who suspects her relationship (or marriage) is going nowhere, and wants to know how to prepare herself for a possible break-up. Saying goodbye is never easy, but in many cases, necessary if you are to live a quality life.
Regardless of what you may be going through, you have the power to change and create the life of your dreams. You do not need a man to make you whole; you need to first make yourself whole. When we are confident, grounded, and balanced women – we will attract the right men. Learn how to get to that place so you can create better relationships that will last for decades. If you believe that now is the time to do something new with your life, then this book is for you.