why I became a sexologist [and why I have some really great conversations]
Sex - either the presence or absence of it - greatly impacts our daily life.
A vibrant sex life can leave you feeling energized, exhilarated, ready to conquer the world, euphoric, desirable, sexy, loved, connected to your partner, and purposed to go after those goals. A dull or nonexistent sex life has the opposite affect, especially for those in a relationship or marriage.
I know what it's like to be in a virtually sexless marriage (as 1 in 4 marriages today are) and spend almost two decades without this vital relationship component. I also know how it feels to have a fabulous sex life in marriage, and see how beautiful God created it to be!
I know what it's like to not have sex with my long term partner because the desire wasn't there. I also know what it feels like to have my long term partner not desire me. Neither is a good situation, and if left unresolved, chances are high that it will ultimately lead to the destruction of your relationship. Unless of course, both of you are okay with being "roommates".
Intimacy and physical bonding is possible without sex, but it will never reach it's full potential between two people who love each other without it. That's how God created us and designed our bodies. To integrate and work together. And that's not just in the bedroom, but in all areas of life. We were never meant to do life alone. As a person ages, it becomes more important and vital to "pair up" and share this experience called life.
In our sexual journey, there is great value in creating that "forever" monogamous relationship. Having a popping hot sex life is possible if you are willing to face the issues and work with your partner to reach your happy place... together. There is no stopping the couple who shares this level of a bond. It takes two to want it, work at it, find it.
One of the reasons I became a Sexologist is because I know that horrible feeling in the pit of your stomach when sex goes wrong, especially with someone you deeply love. It's a heartbreak of great magnitude.
Let me help you reignite the passion, set you on a path to new sexual discoveries with your partner, and get to that finish line with the "one" who is your person. Married sex is the best sex when both of you know how to please each other and integrate your mind, body, and spirit for a maximum experience.
It may take some effort to get to that place of honeymoon bliss, but the short and long term investment in your partner and your marriage will speak for itself with the new spring in your step! Sex isn't rocket science, but sometimes you need someone outside to navigate you through what may only be known by those who research it. That's a Sexologist.
I'm here to help you have a fulfilling relationship with mind and body blowing sex that will curl your toes (when you thought they were numb)! It's possible. Are you ready to begin the journey?