private members-only community

Access a private, faith-centered online community available 24/7 through your computer or mobile app. This is a space reserved for MateQuest members across the United States who have intentionally chosen to invest in their growth and prepare for healthy love.

Connect with other singles who love Jesus and are walking the same adventure. Join topic-based groups for date ready bootcamp lessons, aha shares, fireside chats, and other conversations where you can share insights, celebrate growth moments, ask questions, and encourage one another along the way.

Your MateQuest adventure is a personal mission. As God brings new questers into the community, you’ll have opportunities to connect, share, and grow together.

Together, we pray as a Tribe.

Unlike public dating platforms, MateQuest is not open to anyone creating a profile — members are here because they made an intentional decision to pursue healthier relationships and personal growth.

you may be asking yourself:
"Where can I find other singles who share my faith and desire for a healthy relationship?"
"Who can I talk with as I learn and grow through this season?"
"How can I connect with people who understand what I’m pursuing?"

you’ll see this in:
Checkpoint 1: 🎯 and 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 2: 🎯 and 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 3: 🎯 and 🎯🎯

Come make connections that could become lifelong friendships!

earn fun profile badges

Track your growth and celebrate milestones throughout your MateQuest adventure by earning profile badges — small digital images displayed on your community profile as recognitions of your accomplishments and participation.

Complete your first challenge to earn your MQ tribe member badge, and complete all date ready bootcamp lessons to level up to date ready bootcamp grad status.

Inside the private community, you’ll also have opportunities to receive and award profile badges among fellow members (called questers) for demonstrating qualities like being welcoming, having strong faith, being a positive encouragement, sharing, being courageous, and more.

you may be asking yourself:
"Will my growth and effort be recognized along the way?"
"How can I celebrate the progress I’m making?"
"What makes this adventure more engaging than just completing lessons?"

you’ll see this in:
Checkpoint 1: 🎯 and 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 2: 🎯 and 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 3: 🎯 and 🎯🎯

Every step forward deserves to be celebrated — enjoy the adventure as you grow!

discounted 1:1 virtual clinic sessions

As a MateQuest member, you’ll receive access to private, virtual clinician-led sessions for $99 per 55-minute session (regularly $150). Whether you’re working through something personal or want one-on-one guidance as you prepare for healthy love, individualized support is available when you need it.

you may be asking yourself:
"What if I need support with something personal along my adventure?"
"Who can I talk to when I need guidance beyond the group experience?"
"How can I get professional help without starting over somewhere else?"

you’ll see this in:
Checkpoint 1: 🎯 and 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 2: 🎯 and 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 3: 🎯 and 🎯🎯

You don’t have to figure out every step alone — personalized support is available when you need it!

Join your clinician (AKA trail guide) and fellow questers every other week for a live video small group gathering inside the private MateQuest community. No separate platform is needed — simply join the conversation right where your adventure happens.

These gatherings are available for current members completing date ready bootcamp and continue for singles who want to stay engaged as they navigate dating and prepare for healthy love.

Together, we’ll celebrate wins, pray together, dive deeper into topics from date ready bootcamp, and explore how to apply what you’re learning to real-life relationships. These guided gatherings create space for honest reflection, shared experiences, and meaningful growth with other singles preparing for healthy love.

you may be asking yourself:
"How do I take what I’m learning and apply it to real life?"
"What insights can I gain by hearing how others are experiencing these same topics?"
"Where can I talk through real dating situations in a safe, guided environment?"

you’ll see this in:
Checkpoint 1: 🎯 and 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 2: 🎯 and 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 3: Not included

Take time to reflect, grow, and have conversations that move you forward!

monthly adventure challenges

Throughout your date ready bootcamp experience, you’ll receive monthly adventure challenges inside the MateQuest community designed to help you take action on the key concepts you’re learning in the book.

These practical activities are created to stretch you beyond your comfort zone, help you grow in self-awareness, strengthen your relationship with Christ, and put your personal growth into action. After completing each challenge, you’ll have the opportunity to share your experience, photos, and wins with fellow questers inside the community.

Once you complete all 24 lessons and earn your date ready bootcamp grad badge, you’ll unlock a new phase of challenges focused on intentional dating and discernment as you continue your adventure toward healthy love.

And yes… surprise bonus challenges may appear along the trail to keep things exciting!

you may be asking yourself:
"How do I turn what I’m learning into real change in my life?"
"What small steps can I take to become the person God is calling me to be?"
"How can I create new experiences that help me grow?"

you’ll see this in:
Checkpoint 1: 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 2: 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 3: Not included

Every challenge is a chance to turn what you’re learning into real-life growth!

virtual events and webinars

Throughout the year, you’ll get access to exclusive virtual events and webinars featuring faith-filled experts in love, relationships, healing, and purpose. Whether live or on-demand, these bonus experiences are designed to bring new insights, encouragement, and practical tools to support you as you continue growing into the healthiest version of yourself.

You’ll hear from trusted voices who can help you explore topics beyond the core MateQuest curriculum and provide additional wisdom for the season you’re in — and the healthy love you’re preparing for.

you may be asking yourself:
"How can I gain wisdom from trusted voices who understand relationships and faith?"
"What areas of my life might need deeper growth before I’m ready for healthy love?"
"What additional tools and wisdom can help me prepare for healthy love?"

you’ll see this in:
Checkpoint 1: 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 2: 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 3: Not included

singles social events

After completing your date ready bootcamp graduation in Checkpoint 2, you’ll unlock access to fun, adventure-themed social events designed for Kingdom-minded singles to gather, enjoy shared experiences, and continue building connections beyond the lessons.

Join us for virtual gatherings hosted right inside our private MateQuest community. From time to time, we may also pop up locally in the Denver Metro area or expand to other cities for in-person events!

From choices game nights to single life bingo and creative activities like vision boarding, each event is designed to spark joy, laughter, and meaningful memories with other singles walking the same adventure toward healthy love. You’ll also have opportunities to invite guests who may want to explore the MateQuest adventure for themselves.

Some special events, such as future retreats or destination experiences, may require an additional registration fee.

you may be asking yourself:
"How can I enjoy the adventure with other Kingdom-minded singles beyond the lessons?"
"What opportunities are there to have fun and build memories with others on the same path?"
"How can I experience community in a way that feels natural and pressure-free?"

you’ll see this in:
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Checkpoint 2: 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 3: Not included

Shared experiences create memories that make the adventure even more meaningful!

live monthly group Q&A with your clinician

In Checkpoint 2, you’ll continue having access to your relationship clinician (AKA trail guide) through live monthly group Q&A sessions inside the MateQuest community.

After completing date ready bootcamp, you’ll be equipped to step into the real world of dating with new awareness, tools, and confidence. These sessions give you a place to bring questions that come up as you apply what you’ve learned, use Choices to test compatibility, and navigate real dating experiences.

These live monthly group Q&A sessions are scheduled inside the MateQuest community as an ongoing resource during your dating adventure. Join when you’d like, bring your questions, and gain faith-based wisdom and perspective from your trail guide and fellow questers as you put the tools into practice.

Think of it as your monthly check-in with “the love doctor” — minus the co-pay!

you may be asking yourself:
"I finished bootcamp… now what happens if I have questions while I’m dating?"
"How can I gain wisdom when I’m navigating a real-life dating situation?"
"Who can I turn to when I need a faith-based perspective along the way?"

you’ll see this in:
Checkpoint 1: not included
Checkpoint 2: 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 3: not included

you’re not alone as you put the tools into practice and navigate the adventure ahead!

first look access to new products & experiences

As a MateQuest member, you’ll receive early access to new resources, retreats, courses, and tools before they’re available to the public. You’ll have the opportunity to discover new experiences designed to support your adventure toward healthy love.

Being part of MateQuest means getting a first look at what’s coming next and being among the first to experience new opportunities created for our community.

you may be asking yourself:
"What else is coming next on my adventure toward healthy love?"
"Are there more tools and resources that can help me continue growing?"
"What new experiences can help me keep moving forward?"

you’ll see this in:
Checkpoint 1: 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 2: 🎯🎯
Checkpoint 3: Not included

Fresh opportunities are always ahead as your adventure continues!